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		<title>Comment on Interracial dating in China, or: Why are all these young Chinese girls dating older White men? by na.na.ness</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 04:41:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>great post and correction of jack&#039;s &quot;points&quot;.
so what are the options for women who are racially asian, &quot;highly educated, skilled people who are of some standing within their companies, if not society&quot;, absolutely don&#039;t fit into &quot;such old-fashioned gender boxes&quot;, AND don&#039;t care about material items (i.e. &quot;money, a car, a house&quot;, etc.)?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>great post and correction of jack&#8217;s &#8220;points&#8221;.<br />
so what are the options for women who are racially asian, &#8220;highly educated, skilled people who are of some standing within their companies, if not society&#8221;, absolutely don&#8217;t fit into &#8220;such old-fashioned gender boxes&#8221;, AND don&#8217;t care about material items (i.e. &#8220;money, a car, a house&#8221;, etc.)?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Interracial dating in China, or: Why are all these young Chinese girls dating older White men? by itslateagain</title>
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		<dc:creator>itslateagain</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 05:09:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jack,
I think you interpreted my post with a lot of false assumptions:

1. I am upset that a white guy is rich: not at all. A lot of the foreigners in China do tend in general to be wealthier than locals. I think this is the case elsewhere.

2. I call these women whores for being with a white guy: not at all. The &quot;whore of the orient&quot; is a phrase I have heard elsewhere, and I don&#039;t think that Chinese, or any other women, being in an interracial marriage is equatable to being a whore, a very loaded word to begin with.

3. There should be more white women for Chinese men: not necessarily. The points I raised were merely seeking to answer the question as to why there are less white woman-Chinese men relationships in China by comparison; where did you get the idea I was calling for more such relationships?

You claim I ignore Chinese culture&#039;s emphasis on economic interest within dating/marriage to focus on race: indeed, the point of this post is about interracial dating. I agree that such interests play a significant part in Chinese dating, (as elsewhere) and I believe I make that point clear, but the main question is why are interracial couples so common, and why are they so skewed in one direction? 

For example, in India, economic interests (among others, such as caste) are equally critical parts of marriage, and there are plenty of foreigners living there, but you see far less interracial coupling. Why? Culture, as I think that the beginning of my post and Ty&#039;s response allude to. In China, a lot of women seek a more modern, some would say &#039;liberated&#039; relationship, whereas in India, regardless of whether or not Indian women also desire such relationships, the strengths of traditions, culture (&quot;You must marry &#039;your own&#039;&quot;), personal preference limit such relationships.

Beyond these points, your last paragraph makes a couple of large claims: firstly, that &#039;proper&#039; development requires diversity and open-mindedness. Without wanting to go into too much detail, I agree that both are conducive to development, but that heterogenity is not always required. You can define &#039;proper&#039; development as you wish, but Japan is an examples of a developed, but relatively homogenous society.

Your last point, to put it bluntly, is totally wack. You imply that Han Chinese are a homogenous entity, which is a gross generalization. Within the classification &#039;Han&#039; are numerous varied cultures, languages and histories: Hakka people, of which I belong, for one. Beyond that, there are dozens of minorities living here, all of unique heritage and interest. I can guarantee you that the many visitors that China receives do not necessarily find its supposed &#039;homogeneity&#039; boring. In fact, their &#039;homogeneity&#039;, and the culture which makes it different from visitor&#039;s own lands, is often what draws people to come in the first place. If anything, a lot of foreigners find that the most cosmopolitan places--Beijing, Shanghai, etc.--are so similar to their own cities that they seek other parts of the country for a more &#039;authentic&#039; experience.

I suggest you consider your own partialities before you attack others with ad hominem attacks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jack,<br />
I think you interpreted my post with a lot of false assumptions:</p>
<p>1. I am upset that a white guy is rich: not at all. A lot of the foreigners in China do tend in general to be wealthier than locals. I think this is the case elsewhere.</p>
<p>2. I call these women whores for being with a white guy: not at all. The &#8220;whore of the orient&#8221; is a phrase I have heard elsewhere, and I don&#8217;t think that Chinese, or any other women, being in an interracial marriage is equatable to being a whore, a very loaded word to begin with.</p>
<p>3. There should be more white women for Chinese men: not necessarily. The points I raised were merely seeking to answer the question as to why there are less white woman-Chinese men relationships in China by comparison; where did you get the idea I was calling for more such relationships?</p>
<p>You claim I ignore Chinese culture&#8217;s emphasis on economic interest within dating/marriage to focus on race: indeed, the point of this post is about interracial dating. I agree that such interests play a significant part in Chinese dating, (as elsewhere) and I believe I make that point clear, but the main question is why are interracial couples so common, and why are they so skewed in one direction? </p>
<p>For example, in India, economic interests (among others, such as caste) are equally critical parts of marriage, and there are plenty of foreigners living there, but you see far less interracial coupling. Why? Culture, as I think that the beginning of my post and Ty&#8217;s response allude to. In China, a lot of women seek a more modern, some would say &#8216;liberated&#8217; relationship, whereas in India, regardless of whether or not Indian women also desire such relationships, the strengths of traditions, culture (&#8220;You must marry &#8216;your own&#8217;&#8221;), personal preference limit such relationships.</p>
<p>Beyond these points, your last paragraph makes a couple of large claims: firstly, that &#8216;proper&#8217; development requires diversity and open-mindedness. Without wanting to go into too much detail, I agree that both are conducive to development, but that heterogenity is not always required. You can define &#8216;proper&#8217; development as you wish, but Japan is an examples of a developed, but relatively homogenous society.</p>
<p>Your last point, to put it bluntly, is totally wack. You imply that Han Chinese are a homogenous entity, which is a gross generalization. Within the classification &#8216;Han&#8217; are numerous varied cultures, languages and histories: Hakka people, of which I belong, for one. Beyond that, there are dozens of minorities living here, all of unique heritage and interest. I can guarantee you that the many visitors that China receives do not necessarily find its supposed &#8216;homogeneity&#8217; boring. In fact, their &#8216;homogeneity&#8217;, and the culture which makes it different from visitor&#8217;s own lands, is often what draws people to come in the first place. If anything, a lot of foreigners find that the most cosmopolitan places&#8211;Beijing, Shanghai, etc.&#8211;are so similar to their own cities that they seek other parts of the country for a more &#8216;authentic&#8217; experience.</p>
<p>I suggest you consider your own partialities before you attack others with ad hominem attacks.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Interracial dating in China, or: Why are all these young Chinese girls dating older White men? by Jack</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 03:13:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I used to have the same impression about white &amp; asian couples when I was younger, but after I actually visited China I saw that a young beautiful girl with an old/ugly rich guy was the norm. The fact that you are upset because a rich guy is white is strange because the majority of those couples involve an old rich Chinese guy or Chinese foreigner. You don&#039;t even focus on the culture itself that promotes that type of relationship, instead you focus on race. 

You call these women whores basically for being with a white guy yet you think there should be more white women for Chinese guys. Do you realize how childish your thinking is?

China has a Han Chinese population of over 95%. European countries are much more diverse and open-minded, which is what needs to happen for a country to develop properly. If China remains boring and homogeneous then who the hell would want to visit it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I used to have the same impression about white &amp; asian couples when I was younger, but after I actually visited China I saw that a young beautiful girl with an old/ugly rich guy was the norm. The fact that you are upset because a rich guy is white is strange because the majority of those couples involve an old rich Chinese guy or Chinese foreigner. You don&#8217;t even focus on the culture itself that promotes that type of relationship, instead you focus on race. </p>
<p>You call these women whores basically for being with a white guy yet you think there should be more white women for Chinese guys. Do you realize how childish your thinking is?</p>
<p>China has a Han Chinese population of over 95%. European countries are much more diverse and open-minded, which is what needs to happen for a country to develop properly. If China remains boring and homogeneous then who the hell would want to visit it?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Interracial dating in China, or: Why are all these young Chinese girls dating older White men? by Ty</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 04:23:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To date someone who is different, which the women are curious about is always exciting. This is human nature. Also, the opportunity to explore and experience the &#039;love&#039; from the hyped-up fantasies that the foreigners are better mannered, cool and who listen to the woman i.e. the woman can &#039;control&#039; tend to encourage such relationship. Older foreign men can afford to splash their money in exchange for the &#039;love&#039; of younger companions who sees this as a security and enjoyment of their younger lives.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To date someone who is different, which the women are curious about is always exciting. This is human nature. Also, the opportunity to explore and experience the &#8216;love&#8217; from the hyped-up fantasies that the foreigners are better mannered, cool and who listen to the woman i.e. the woman can &#8216;control&#8217; tend to encourage such relationship. Older foreign men can afford to splash their money in exchange for the &#8216;love&#8217; of younger companions who sees this as a security and enjoyment of their younger lives.</p>
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